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By changing the true feelings wholeheartedly (two)
09:32, 28 December 2009
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"Ah! Really? Then has she promised? " I am extremely nervous. Have just seen her expression can be guessed to one or two fen tooed."Having promised, but there are conditions. " She bows the head, does not seem very willing to go on.
A bit filled with anger that I have heard, " she has owed you so many, just help you to also have a condition to pay some tuition? ! What condition? "
"Yes, the condition is Exactly Let me not go back to foster father's foster mother's place again forever. She would like to give them 3000 yuan as compensation. " Whom she choke with sobs say.
"Have you promised? If you have promised, I will never recognize your friend. Loving-kindness in you, foster mother of foster father, I believe, have anything can than go down, let alone the money. Besides study in high school have meal take, you both hands both feet well, so long as enterprising, can go out of a one's own road. Your foster father's foster mother has no you to mean losing the whole world, they have only you alone, only such your daughters. " I am a bit excited, a bit angry too.
"You are not angry, don't be angry. I have not promised, because too angry I am too to just run back stealthily. " She is hurry explaining, waves and shakes the head.
"Move, I accompany you raise parents' house. " Washing washes and changes a suit, go back to one's own kennel drawing her. The ones that as the saying goes are good, the silver nest of gold nest is the warmth not so good as one's own kennel.
Have reached the gate of parents' home of raising, have not entered the door yet, heard her breeder mother's voice: "Where did she go? Disappearing very early in the morning. I am extremely anxious, she can go to somewhere, it is your place to go back. Tell me quickly, where you hide her? " Every sentence is all overbearing in the speech.
"We do not really know, she has disappeared, we are very anxious too. Let's go to look for quickly. " It is her foster father, servile tone, really let me feel and love.
"No,we first solve lose another things first. Here is 3000 yuan, raise being clear the adult for repaying your married couple. She needs good environment now, does not she want to study in the high school very much? I would like to appear too in money, so long as she no longer gets back to here. " This world is like this, colourful, there are all kinds of people of kind. Life of others' domination that it can be bold and assured that the person against one's will is still.
I emit fire 10 meters kick the door and is entered, has not considered either, that small wooden door can stand this a kick of mine. "Shut up for me! You have gone too far, is mothers of people in vain. " Enter the first thing of the door and give this breeder mother a sentence of ruthless words first.
"Who are you? " Her expression in one's eyes of growing the master tape and studying stares at me.
"I? I am your daughter's best friend. "
"Don't in charge of others' other people's business of home, young, what is understood? " She is a little unhappy.
"If is others' thing, I do not still bother to manage. Ask what I understand? I understand conscience, I understand loving-kindness. How about you? A few days ago, listen to your narration sympathizing with somewhat, actually thought too you retrieved her originally, ask her to forgive, it is from the bottom of one's heart to want her reunion. Have never expected you are so base, 3000 yuan, you want to buy out the kindred between them by 3000. You be watched very much, blow 3000 these, look down upon loving-kindness very much? For other two children, you do not hesitate to remarry, prefer to bear others behind you and give directions, let others laughing stock when tea is chatted about after a meal. Do not wish them to suffer hardships either, not future. It is likewise one's own, why have so big difference? You are clear too that bring a child up by oneself, not only a question of the money, the more important thing is mental and physical efforts, with tears and heart-broken to have kind care see them grow up. The environment that you came to an agreement just now, how is she this several decades, did you know? To her, this is her best environment, teach her how to conduct oneself here. If let you take away, I'm afraid her soul will go bad. " The croak has said one is great and open in my one breath ji. I never answer back to elders, this is good teaching the wind of our family. Just the behavior of this person made one's blood boil at the moment at this moment, my anger broke through reason.
Her breeder mother just sheds the tears, no longer refute with one's head low. For a long time She opens one's mouth again: "Clear, would you like to treat this, or go back with me? "
"Treating this, I have only a mother and a father, is them. " She points to and raises parents, the determination without the least hesitation is sure and the definite her breeder mother of answer.
At night, she and I stayed and accompanied raising parents to have a meal. Though there are only two or three pieces of vegetable dish, ugly and so little tone on the desk. But what I ate is with relish, full of endless joy.
From that day, her foster father's foster mother treats me as one's own daughter. Although I have not called parents, have already regarded them as one's own parents in the heart.
So-called " willing to " ,Give up and just have. Because clear filial deep emotion raise parents, raise parents hesitate for her all borrow the money from neighbour's everywhere. When borrow the money, a kind neighbour suggests her raising parents and letting her study in and defend the school, it is said this neighbour has a niece who studies in and defends the school too, has tested a nurse, it is very steady to work now, it is much better to study in the high school than to go. Hear this piece make people behind the excited news, raise parents tell us at once for it, determine, register hurriedly.
Those three years, I strove in high lieutenant colonel's garden in the town, under the prerequisite of preparing college entrance examination, practice hard painting technology. And she studies medicine in a schools defended in the city, we have letters to come and go intermittently during this time. Keeping in touch. After the three year, I admit to a university smoothly, at time when I goes to the college, whom she has succeed in already become one nurse, work in a private hospital, the salary is very high, but I still rolled to climb in the campus, own future of the achievement has come with parents' capital to continue.
Read for big two that years, she gave me and had a phone convesation, told me that the foster father passed away because of cancer of getting. Before this, she word mention with me only. In her at the other end of the telephone, follow in the past unbending then still, she wanted to control one's own mood, do not want to let me know how sadly she leave to worry about her. It's a pity she forget, until important period of time that who accompany that she spend most, she and raising the emotion between parents, I can not understand.
Choose, let day that foster father is bury, she streamline phone give to me, ask me whether I can participate in the funeral. I think, one has been promised without the brain. Who knows after letting my own mother know, burst into a rage to me. Talk about her and me although the emotion is good, it is really unreasonable to attend a burial, has not shared benefit with relatives and friends at all. I left rub ji right rub tangle mother of ji give up, get end, mother break I, have to promise me to send wreath to, but can't participate in the funeral. This is her biggest concession, I have not blamed mother's meaning at all, I am her daughter after all, have any bad thing to me, she will be as sensitive as hedgehog, protection I that take every care. I only move, there are no complaints.
That day when sent wreath to, she was helping mothers to wash the bowl, smiling at me of a face with silly kind, "how have you been? " I am a little worried.
"I very fine OK, and I must want very good too, otherwise mother of me take what is to be done? " She laughs foolishly from me, the ones that smiled are so forced, so tired out.
"Is it the ocean? Do you come? " Her foster mother comes out of the inner room.
"Right, it is me, I am unable to come to participate in the funeral, so send this wreath up first today. Really very sorry, because of I happened to have a class that day. " What some of me answered has a guilty conscience, but I can not say I can't come because my mother is not willing. That is my mother after all, I want to take her feeling into account, she loves my feeling, I believe they will forgive.
"It doesn't matter, it doesn't matter, it doesn't matter, you can give wreath come, be watched, get up we house old fogey, the old fogey of our family is before death, praising you for being obedient without a break, is wanting to see you. You and clear a neither relatives nor friends one, we of we, very getting rare so. " Grateful kind of a face of foster mother, let me love especially. She came over to say shaking hands with me: "The clear sub person of one's own mother, may not be certain to remember this feeling too, you stranger did instead, the ones that do not really have say. "
"Auntie, what do you say at this moment? What is stranger? Than loud two months such as me, I have already called her sister, although I did not call you the mother clear a month, but in my heart, have already regarded you as mother. There is importance at all of blood relationship, do not you raise being clear and grow up too? Fall for the brother, why kiss with the meat. I and clear to share benefit with relatives and friends at all, better than the blood sister we. I oneself study still, can help, get what she order among actual life just, I feel ashamed and regretful very much. " I ashamed.
"Where to talk about this? Can know your friend, I, as her mother, glad for her, happily! " She has excited hand which catches me, it is the tighter to catch. I experience her to the clear love deeply, the trust to me.
I graduated from university that year, went back to the People's Hospital in the town clearly, several months later, the becoming a full member type staff smoothly. I feel glad for her, it is unable to express in speech. Invite her to revel for one night together.
Now, how many people are waiting for others for the wholehearted one first, will think about how much oneself really pays? Put pieces of abacus in heart always, Pi Pi fighting loud pa pa, regard as the gain and loss. Even others offer wholehearted already, want, take, come out, calculate, it has to be and false really somewhat the true feelings too, regarded as oneself and has not lost money.
Don't regard oneself as a canary, let one's own life finish in that exquisite and small and exquisite cage. Your heart is not for keeping a lookout, it is raw but in order to fly.
Nowadays, I have work too. We have grown up, ripe too. During the decade, around environment change, walk, when street, know, have how much people and we wipe shoulder and miss, the one that is very happpy is, ten years ago, I and too clear to miss each other. Ten years later, our friendship remains unchanged. The one that is happpy even more is, having let me witness to, sometimes blood relationship is not the assurance of the emotion. To raise parents is heavier, deeper than that of the sea than the mountain to clear loving-kindness. I firmly believe, the children of she and I will be the good brother in the future, good sisters. Even if different blood flows in the body, we can kiss like whole family equally, because we can be by changing the true feelings wholeheartedly.
By changing the true feelings wholeheartedly
09:20, 28 December 2009
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By changing the true feelings wholeheartedly Fall for the brother, why the flesh and blood are kissed.
It is clear for more than ten years to know. Remember at that time, all of us were the new students who just entered the same middle school, happened to be assigned to the same class, we become to begin in order that sisters are since the second day.
That year, the school should hold the party of celebrating New Year's Day. Our class newspaper national dance, I am one of the team members, it is the field at the time of the party of New Year's Day to rehearse the place, one the great hall, very near to the school, get, class is over, they will high to run, come over, think interest have, she is among them too. I often notice this often forgotten the girl in the corner by others, see she sees the expression in one's eyes that we envy while dancing, sparkle, does not evade at all. I can find out how she wishes eagerly to want to stand on this stage with us, dance with us, rehearse, I advise to the captain, let her participate in too, it it reacts result to be it want than me to opposition the getting fiercer,at I under the one purpose insist on, some team members forcing it say: "If she has come in, we withdraw. " See this, whom I can only have no way out put down this thought.
In the near future, the form master will transfer her and me as the deskmate. I and she are the people who are not very good at making friends voluntarily, just the expression way is different. She dodges and shrinks, I pretend to be cool cold and detachedly. Once had a class, the sudden notes without foundation, I looked around, thought whose practical joke with me, while planning to throw away the note, the deskmate's she discloses the arms which puts me, blushes scarlet, I understand it was her originally in subconsciousness, open the note, has presented several words carefully and neatly, "thank you, may we become friends? "
Two Buddhist monks of my Zhang can not touch the head, pick up pens livelily and vigorously back to several words, "why thank me? "
"Your suggestion because of New Year's Day that time. " She replies. Know from where is she to it sounds as if this, only we really became the difficult sister's difficult sister from then on.
One weekend, she invites me to go to her home to sojourn hospitably. I think to the appearance of ten million kinds poverty of her family, just as I stand in the instant in front of her house, the psychological preparation that has already finished disintegrates in the twinkling of an eye, I know some of me fail to see the firework of human world, my heart is baffled and miserable for a moment. This first soil can house of the soil, watch some hole hole holes holes caused because of yellow mud dropping at the wall, I tremble with fear. Why survive from devil's talon of each violent storm to consider this small broken room. When come into the kitchen, the estimation that my eyes stare at can compare favourably with the goldfish. By the top of a kitchen range is the pigsty, there is a big fat pig of both ends that washes me and " moans " inside ,Activeness seeming to let them be extraordinary in my arrival. Look at a dirty messy one, smell on pigsty floating dung bad smell that coming out, I am unable to imagine who can swallow the next meal under such an environment, she has lived here for several decades, up to now, even has continued. Her mother and father look very severe, reserved. I hurting it am a bit poverty-stricken too, pig's cry beyond cutting the dish sound in the house. She advise me to go to the outside to get about to get about, if she find out I am uneasy. I nod slightly, turn round to leave, the gate is while turning, I hear her mother saying: "Others are the daughter, came this is really hurt and wronged, she, you are really thoughtless too, why not say hello with the mother ahead of time, let mothers prepare too. "
"Mother, don't worry, she is not such a person, believes me, though her house is rich, but she is different from others. " I getting silly, tone firmness like this of her, she trust I like this, only because the New Year's Day a small suggestion, it is that an important one is definite to her.
I should understand early, stand in the instant in front of this house from me, I understand, she though one is poor,he has lofty aspirations, she have absolute self-esteem, and firm defence heart. She can take me to this dirty and also discredited and broken family, it is obvious she has absolute trust to my personality and morality, understand I will not laugh at, will not detest, will not dislike and avoid her. The tears backfall along the cheek, I take out the napkin to polish. "The ocean, what's the matter with you? " She comes out of the gate carrying the steaming hot surface of the bowl.
"Does not matter, what is this on your end? " Moving sad again mood in order to cover up oneself, I shift the topic on purpose.
"It is certainly the lunch for you, noodles, the family crowds the also dirty one, is afraid you can not eat any more, so the end is come out to eat for you, sorry! Don't mind. " She smiles at me naughtily.
"The scenery outside is very good, the air is very fresh, the long life that can live here estimating is one hundred years old! Have mountain and water, have House of this mud of yours, oh, you are still really traditional running out from the gully ditch. Including your personality and soul, as clean and transparent as this mountains and rivers. " I am a bit meaningful, the topic is too heavy. "We enter, take, accompany you parents, you study, come back while being rare too. " I put forward the suggestion. Walk to the room drawing her. Taste of noodles good, solving it under the 0.15 of me, she parents see me laugh at straight, then let one be gratified.
Having eaten up the delicious noodles full of love again, I find out some strength is repaid, then wash the bowl. Just before a station of mine gets to the top of a kitchen range, while holding the sleeve preparation, she and her mother, even what asked the area to ask had shooed away me. Have no way, I have only winding a circle after turning around nearby of living a life of ease and leisure occupied with nothing, while going back to the gate of her home, see she is carrying the basket and coming out. "What are you going to do like this? " What I do not understand is asked.
"Oh, I go out to take and order to come back in the field for my parents more, I take one or two weeks going back to school. I'm afraid she is too tired, will you stay here for a moment first? " The saying to me of her whole face apology.
"Do not matter! Please go, I'm fine, don't worry. " In order to let her settle down, I risk one's life showing the smile not appearing to her very much on ordinary days. In fact, she so uneasy in me. Do not know why face her that pair of parents not very talkative, it happens that we are all similar people, it is still really a question to get along.
"Your name is the ocean? " It is her mother.
"Yes, auntie, how is it? " My heart is agitated.
"We house nothing people come too at ordinary times, see you come, we very glad, can say something about clear state in school with my wife and me? " That's great, there was a topic at last, just suddenly I did not know how to open one's mouth.
"She is pretty good in the school, study very conscientiously, and very friendly between classmates. " Whom I speak a little against one's will, eyes dare to face up to this person care about one's own mother of daughter wholeheartedly at the moment. It is not good at all in the school to be clear, she has no friend, is disdained, is detested. But how do I tell you these? I bow the head, read countless pieces of " sorry " silently in the heart . Because I have spread a well-meaning lie in front of a sincere mother love.
"What kind of child it is no matter clear until others in the eyes, in my wife and me of the eyes, she is a very clever and very obedient and very filial daughter. " I can see this mother's flashing tears in the eyes.
On the road returned to, " what's the matter after asking me n clearly? " Because after she plucked dishes, we leave and return, a word of mine was not spoken either on the way. My state of mind also stays in the scene of talking with that pair of married couple, it is smaller and weaker than I that I stare at this body bone before having in mind, month but than heavy two month such as me, hurt I call her sound " sister " Little girl.
Learn from she parents she sad and dreary to give birth to after the generation, heart of me fail calm for a long time personally. Run out, in the near future, give, abandon parents right away in mother's womb just in her. Place one poor married couple house gate on, she used for little cotton-wadded quilt to make baby on one's body at that time, have not left anything, has not evened have a small note. From that time, breeder mothers of she and own father no longer have any relation, the only ones that had the connection are the blood of their body with the same indraft, but no longer there is any kindred that can be spoken. She has known her since childhood parents have been one's own not now, she has not complained, have not hated, just the foster mother of the foster father of this pair of great kindness to her is as weighty as a mountain of filial piety quietly.
What I have no ability to help her at this moment, because all of my what parents give. I can only give her sincere friendship, and kind care. We at that time, was the youth, vigor, illusion. Always like strolling in the ornaments shop, buy and pile the ornaments to disguise oneself greatly, the textbook homework is lost on one side. Always imagine oneself as the swordswoman in Jin Yong's kungfu novel, heroine in sadly beautiful love novel Qiong Yao.
My home is very near to the this middle school, just come and go to run for seven or eight minutes. So leave school every afternoon, she always goes to my home to play. I will always give some new ornaments to her. I hope she can feel happiness, at least within I ability range only, how much done how much can be done. Because so she has suffered others' insult too, say she always goes to " the princess " The family, " princess " Fetch home and study individually late. Very obvious, " princess " in their mouth Mean me. She has cried, just I still hear that firm words in the sound of choking with sobs from her " no matter how others treat us, we are friends forever, and sisters. " Having finished listening to this sentence, heart that of mine lets one be made warm.
Our friendship is strengthened continuously. Time passes quickly, reach the stage of high school of studying in in a short time. I have been admitted to a high school in the town smoothly. And she is closed by the high lieutenant colonel's door like this at the door because of three fen of drop, if rich household can also through the way that the money is bought three these, continue and study in. But the shabby family of her, translate pieces of bottom until heaven estimate translate, produce odd pieces of money even. When being desperate, to give birth to, give birth to mother appear, stand in front of breeder mother she, she is too deep for tears. Full of in the expression in one's eyes angrily, joyful and helpless.
Under the narration of her breeder mother, we know, before her originally, another elder sister, the breeder mother originally planned to want another son, the result was disappointed to give birth to a baby girl, grit one's teeth, heart horizontal to embrace, raise her for someone else. After these two years, crown breeder mother's wishes, obtain sons again as expected. The second couple are extremely joyful, the ones that just lived and must work steadily and make solid progress were lived. One more mouth has a meal, should always try every possible means to maintain life. The own father planned to go away to exact debit, did business in the past, quite a lot of individuals owed him money. Just went from then on, there is not the returning date, never came back, did not know whether he still survives in this world. No matter he is dead or alive, he has one quarter to miss this to already give to others, but still the daughter of the same blood flows with him in the body. Many years after the own father loses the connection, the breeder mother is unable to bear the economic pressure because a person is taking two children, and two children want reading, has remarried under having no way out, the living condition turns better gradually.
Nowadays, she miss the daughter outside very much, she want, give, take, go back her. After finishing listening to her narration, run forward, is embracing one's own breeder mother tightly, "mother! " She has called out, called out at last. It is that oneself can hate for her to think, think oneself never have any relation with them, but the thinking it was wrong of her. She is what has been thirsted for the breeder mother is fond of, wish eagerly to meet with the younger brother of elder sister in another family.
After admitting, she decides to be growing the married woman's parent's home and staying for one week. Night, I lie at oneself easy soft bed, illusion she kiss elder sister and younger brother scene meet, with a one's own one, it should be the warmth so! Even in the dream, I seem to see her smile, very magnificent, very warm
Second, mother come, knock at I door very early in the morning, make it clear, come on. I put on nightdresses rapidly, run to the sitting room, " why do you come early in the morning? Oh. " I go to her cheerfully. Run nearly she, I am distracted, she has a trace of tears at the face. In the expression in one's eyes, the ones that were revealed are all full pain of injury. "What's the matter? Tell me. " I am too impatient to wait, ask catching her.
"I want to go home, go back to that tattered family "Some of her have choked with sobs.
My holding her tightly, pat her shoulder, so long as can let her feel and make warm well little by little. After she has calm mood slightly, and then have a chat with her.
"At yesterday, after I went to their home, saw elder sister and younger brother. I am very happy, just that elder sister does not look very glad, she seems to dislike and avoid me for being dirty a bit. But that younger brother is pretty good, have already studied in the Junior One. Two of them and I long picture very much " I find out, she has used " their family " when saying and growing the married woman's parent's home ,It is obvious she has not got any silk in that warmly. They let her think oneself is a stranger.
"Is not that pretty good? Why cry, lose a face come back? " I take care of about and speech, it.
"Pretty good? Oh, may be pretty good. " Listen to vicissitudes very in her tone. " when getting up this morning, I, with the mother (breeder mother) Say I want, continue, study in high school, hope she can help, buy, enter me. "
it must be
02:50, 25 August 2009
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"No, it must be the water sound! " Small Lip river turns round to continue running forward again, " originally, the water sound, must be just here nearby. " The last stakes thought that kind in a trance to come again. He does not know where the destination is, perhaps just before it is near, perhaps in very far place yet, no matter far and near his capital is undeterminable. Scene around is full of various hints, even include the cries of those birds. This time he stops to look at and listen to carefully, but he is unable to analyse and explain the meaning of those hints.
Last stakes know oneself one bisexual lover person, begin to understand why can leave the hometown with Ian when being young after a long time. In the this of understanding, he lie at editor-in-chief bed of house, bring, have a headache and split through signs of getting drunk of night. It is to Ian's betrayal to leave the north manor with small Lip river, though he already died. It is the betrayal of small Lip river to sleep on the bed editing and is propagated everywhere by the slander, though has already divorced. The last stakes was unintentional, he did not just go to think. He will not think of why after remaining years each time, some things happened, will suddenly realize the truth until a certain time just going to the halfway of life.
Divorce, last stakes stand, in surfer dim light of night of paradise, overlook another side terminal bungee jumping Tamerlan of amusement park on one side from road. The cabin has risen to flutter to rotate in the air up and down in the brilliant ball, people are screaming. After seeing and having an hour totally, he decides to sit. When in midair on playing and rising the cabin and is sprayed, seemed suddenly in the chest of the last stakes that there is not heart, while playing and promoting the cabin and falling back, the heart has not come back either. The last stakes thinks this kind of feeling is extremely wonderful, he does not know the weightless feeling is so beautiful, if know, he is sure to hold small Lip river to jump down from the upper limit of the waterfall when in the rainforest. Then he faints on the ground, loses consciousness. In the hospital while waking up, small Lip river has come. What last stakes will not remember discussing, perhaps discuss some rainforest, perhaps anything was not discussed. The doctor says his heart is problematic, this lets last stakes feel very laughable. A once hiker and catching crocodile's human heart is so fragile, he does not know whether should smile, just as after Ian died, he did not know whether should feel relaxed and the same. Small Lip river is very angry for a time, because the small book says he wants to leave the family, go to cohabit with Botani| Squalene| Skin Care| Point of Sale| Laptop Batteries the lover of the same sex. Last stakes think he be taken it seriously perhaps. He is still young, has not gone through those unclear things in a trance, this thing is actually more fragile than the heart of the last stakes that he does not know the love. Last stakes say to little Lip river they take, go through one's own life, then let them go. Then, in the life that Lip river pair is inferior, the last stakes is evaporated in two world of material and spirit completely at the same time.
Every detail of figure of small Lip river in the rainforest that remember the last stakes. They get on one rock of height at the slope, small Lip river some wheeze even finally. Backed out suddenly in the rainforest all around, emerged in one sharp and one stretch of skies on the top of the head, there are stars, the moon is round as a ball. Rock slope very heavy, the middle have all in that place level quite, have Forth Five-Year Plan Period pieces of square too, it is enough for two persons to lie down. The moonlight is shed down, is suffused with thin only fainting whitely of a layer in the middle of the rock. The last stakes want to call this rock slope the moonlight slope, welled up a kind of emotion in his heart suddenly, want to lie here, sleep comfortably, want to like something to moan. Ham and sing while taking a stroll the poet probably emerges like this. Having never thought of becoming a poet in the life of the last stakes, but that evening, he remembers he really begins to hum.
the national job develops
03:44, 6 July 2009
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Appendix five: U.S.A.'s national job develops the guilding principle (1) 1." the national job develops the guilding principle " in U.S.A. U.S.A. national job information Coordination Committee middle and primary schools autognosis understanding of importance of ego consciousness correctly understanding of influence of positive ego consciousness, adult of high school, positive self- understanding of influence of idea keep positive self- skill and skill and skill and people positive skill of contacts that people associate that others associate of idea keep Effective and behavioral understanding of influence grown up and developed of understanding of the importance of growing up and changing of understanding of the importance of growing up and changing, to the expansionary change of skill Melt and understanding education and exploration of the job relation of the transition, to the education achievement correctly of understanding that the job chance will benefit from education achievement of understanding benefiting because of education achievement Understanding of relation with planning of job enter and to in order to accumulate understanding of relation worked and studied of understanding of relation worked and studied of skill that participation educate and train Attitude understanding of necessity worked and studied to treat very much participate in work and lifetime study skill understand and use the message skill of the job to look for, understand and use the information skill of the job to look for, assess and explain the information skill of the job is looked for, assess and explain job skill of information look for and obtain to individual liability and good understanding of importance of work habit knowledge of skill job need prepare Searching, get, keep and change the work skill planning to look for, get, keep and change skill understanding work and society need and economy correctly of the relation between work and the social demand and social function correctly of the work, the understanding on influence that requirements for society of understanding and function of the social function bring to working essence and structure brings society need and function to working essence and structure Understanding job that influence plan until how make job understanding job decision skill job decision skill job skill of decision of decision to different phase under role in life The understanding of the relation is right in life the understanding of interreaction between different roles in life of understanding of the interreaction between different roles bring the work to individual and family each other Understanding of influence for jobs different and for jobs different and for men and women is there the constant role at the understanding of varieties of role men and women men and women the understanding of varieties of role Understanding that vary change to understanding that men and women vary continuously between the role to job understanding understanding of course of planning of job job skill job of planning to plan course Only been the included above in skill is U.S.A. job information norm of " last guilding principle jobs national " where Coordination Committee issues national. " the national job develops the guilding principle " to include 4 page, page, page of high school and adult's page of middle school / junior middle school of primary school in U.S.A., each part has a corresponding quantization index. The table below only includes some of pupils normal in vocational guidance.
2. " the national job develops the guilding principle " in U.S.A. - -1 pupil's ability and national self- cognitive ability of Coordination Committee of job information of U.S.A. of index: The understanding of importance of ego consciousness is with oneself and others' view and visual angle separately, describe one's own advantage define personal behavioral impact on family relationship and school describe personal bearing behavior how mood and behavior to influence others lift a own one The positive example enumerate personal interest, ability, one and shortcoming grows to describe several kinds of methods through the job reach 2 of example ability of the individual demand: Explain why everybody illustrate with examples different individual with skill that others associate ' Demonstrate) The effective skill that is exchanged with others is demonstrated solving and student,Netbook Wholesale|Netbook manufacturer|Netbook review|Netbook factory||Electronic CigaretteCheap Netbooks|Best Netbook|Buy Cheap Netbook|Red Netbook|White Netbook friend and all sorts of skill of conflict of adult illustrate with examples skill in member enumerate classmate friend source of the pressure illustrate with examples, when the pressure from classmate's friend is contrary to one's own understanding and view, should adopt what bearing suitable to illustrate with examples, to different culture, life style, view and ability, what kind of cognitive ability 3 should be had: Consciousness of importance to grow up and change define various mood and feeling define expression mood and all kinds of way that experience describe, cause spiritual pressure each Kinds of reason define and choose several suitable treatment way should lift to various mood state several oneself and other people handle the conflict, inhibit and the good methods of different mood
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Demonstrate the cognition of the good and healthy habit
Education and job
Ability 4: As to the consciousness benefiting because of education achievement
Describe academic skill with how about use for family and the society
Define individuals in the strong point of every speciality and weak spot
Define several kinds of jobs a group of study knowledge and skill needed
Describe ability, with the relation between the achievement hard
Make an action plan which improves the study skill
Describe the basic skill needed is similar what homework and success obtain employment in the school
Describe different requirements that different job levels have for education
Ability 5: Consciousness to the relation worked and studied
Define several different job, a paid and free one
Describe the importance that the job is prepared
Illustrate high-efficiency study and searching habit of message with examples ' Advantage)
Illustrate with examples, understanding, practise, the importance with study hard
Describe what does it have to do with the present study and work in the future
Describe a person as how students look like an adult worker
Ability 6: Understand and use the information skill of the job
Describe the working condition of kinsfolks, school teaching and administrative staff and community worker
Define different jobs according to the data, people and thing
Define the working activity interest in student
Describe it on job, the relation among the outlook on life, attitude, personal interest, ability
Describe various work on the professional market here
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Brother-in-law and I play chess in the room, hear parents can't help feeling pleased but not show it to quarrel over. As expected after they cool down, confer calmly. The brother-in-law says with a smile, mother will give in. I have smiled touching on lightly. Think in the heart: This fellow's insight is still good, looked down upon him in the past. a£¤ Mother has agreed to let me return to homeland finally. She exhorted repeatedly a few days ago before leaving, longwinded, did not stop. I hear irritatedly, pull a long face and ask whether she finishes having. a£¤'s mother is unavoidable to tell the brother-in-law again. She said she would send the living cost of 50 yuan to brother-in-law's unit each month, he must send over it to me in time. Brother-in-law can very well make people, take mother needn't worry about me, bear living expenses of me voluntarily. Mother gave me 500 yuan privately before getting on the train, said silently: "Don't already, don't haphazard flower. " Having finished talking about, the tears fall down. I have said a few words to comfort her, joke that coming back from the native place will break up the family with her at once.
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I left a£¤ to come back five years after the native place again at last. The unit person of a£¤'s brother-in-law hears I have come, reach to the attic to visit one after another. Perhaps the elder sister has blown me Heaven, so everybody is unavoidably a bit disappointed while seeing me. Their an only surprised one is that I can walk with the stool. The difference in temperature of a£¤ north and south is old, I increase and decrease the clothes carelessly again, have a fever and cough on the same day night to get back to the native place. As soon as the brother-in-law touches my forehead to scald one's hand, will wake up and work together to go to the town hospital to look for a doctor next door in a hurry at once. Doctor a£¤ says after taking my temperature I have just caught a cold. Perhaps the doctor thinks the urban resident proposes making a bit enervatedly. The brother-in-law demands to use the best medicine repeatedly. Doctor give me want brother-in-law wake up other people play card behind the bit pitch. I feel in they talk the brother-in-law is extremely popular, the one that had no me to think is so stiff. The doctor gave me infusion again the next day of a£¤. Everybody say brother-in-law to be more than half to toss about people night, must sip the wine. The brother-in-law has bought two ducks. Several people for cook, shift responsibility onto others each other, have to stress lot determine. I know at this moment there are only four people in the supply and marketing cooperative in the town, they take over form former generation like brother-in-law, just have this admirable job. Four people do not have own difference at age, the brother-in-law gets married first, that was married is the town girl, make people regard with special esteem naturally. My health of a£¤ just resumed to want the countryside back, the brother-in-law did not leave me to live for several more day. I have to live for several days again. The brother-in-law's parents hear I have come, come to supply and marketing cooperative in the town and see me by bus from home specially, have also taken a lot of cured meat and peanut. Though belong to a township, I can not still understand well when the brother-in-law parents speak, there is only that sentence " Thanks " With clear articulation and a mellow and full tone. It seems the elder sister flatters me in front Pet Shop, Frontline Tick, Frontline Cat, Flea Medication, Flea Remedies, china wholesale, Printer Parts of the mother-in-law family very much, has stored up much popularity for me. This lets me think of that sentence " Love me, love my dog " Idiom. a£¤ pushes the window of the attic open, far sees that zigzag brook. The river is limpid, flow into the distant place slowly. I know river will pass my home, flow into the river of money. I remember that almost became delicious food of the fish in the river as a child, remember the scene in aunt's chest, remembered suddenly too the elder sister said the niece cloud suffered from diseases caused by dampness of windward clearly, because had not treated and dropped the deformity in time, though married, day passes very poorly. a£¤
I am anxious to return home. It is determined to go home no matter how the brother-in-law urges to stay. The brother-in-law have to send me back to spending the bridge after looking for a tricycle tractor. a£¤
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06:53, 25 May 2009
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On the on the spring such as household such as bright red sunshine is, it last door shadow cast by the suns pure and. A century beginning of working hard, where spends marrying the hero. Make ±Q until beautiful style describe life of boudoir extremely, seem graceful pure to concentrate here on everything in this world. Whom Dream of the Red Chamber praise highly exactly this kind with women, young girl graceful and pure for representative especially, as " the adult's world " " male world " Contrast. "A century beginning of working hard, where spend and marry the hero? " Not close to the treasured jade " Fish's eyes " Its theory? (someone may feel uncomfortable to this kind of statement, but if regard it as a kind of " cognition of philosophy " ,But not the cognition of life, suddenly see the light - -The girl is beautiful " Open up swans and is covered with " Beauty at the beginning the most hour. It has a fable that " the village is in conformity with the emperor ", the seven apertures are held and the Chaos die) . And best embody this kind of graceful and pure one beautifully in Dream of the Red Chamber, it is exactly the jade of black pigment.
And treasure hairpin, " I think " for treasure hairpin Until " whether I it's time " (instinct and emotion, cognition and idea) Almost have no difference, everything that she does is " absolutely correct " . She surmounts maturity to age. Author think her to be good, but such and good he love most and advocate.
The pen and ink of Dream of the Red Chamber finely gets " Cunning " ,speak and reveal one's feelings often author, write slowly it go, hide stand up true opinions one's own, even turn around and state, if readers do not really love this book, will often be confused by some superficial sentences. Such as 28 times " The bunch of red musk deer of shy cage " Wrote: "Treasured jade in by watch it is the white because the arm more in each, last heart that envy unwittingly, last dish secretly: ' this arm should grow on younger sister Lin, or must feel, simply grow on him. ' do not know others read this section how about does it feel, read here as a child, I, gnash one's teeth, think that has profaned the jade of black pigment very much, the treasure hairpin can not fumble, does but the jade of black pigment feel? The jade of black pigment is immortal's elder sister in our mind, pure and " clever " ,how could as carnal desire antithetical couplet have the together? Have waited until reading several times more, has just understood gradually, the treasured jade is very natural to think, the jade of black pigment is one's own wife in the future, do not have this idea to the treasure hairpin at all times; He admires the lush one to her very much, it is a very natural thing too. Go back to the past to see again " The jade is grown fragrantly on purpose continuous quiet day " ,So simple and bright and clean as to make us sentimental. Just realize that it is a kind of remote emotion, is the child type, naughty to the jade of black pigment to get to the treasured jade, it is bosom friend's, deep too. No matter what is loved, like something, he is very broad and level. His is suffused with the love and too single-minded to have and contradictory.
Snow celery write get up black pigment jade and treasure hairpin, always " the split-blip exists side by side, two moisture flows " ,Deceive people on purpose and is fooled, is fooled frighteningly again. It is actually few that previous readers are fooled. Even there is cause which sympathizes with the weak, it is still the disposition which appreciate the jade of black pigment to be more. But the snow celery is probably very difficult Auto Diagnostic| Car Diagnostic| Automotive Diagnostic| bmw gt1 imagines, later readers will use the eyes of all sorts of utility, to treat the black pigment jade that he likes most, the god of all sorts of flowers in his mind. His " hoax " Having succeeded, know in the underground, he or very depressed.
About the jade of black pigment " Petty " " acrimonious " ,But but 3 mention again one always. There are a lot of people refuting, I think that it is unnecessary to come once. I only want to clarify another misunderstanding, is the jade love ideal failing of black pigment, must blame herself " Will not become people " ,Have lost the elder's attachment, it is happy in all one's own life that have ruined. This typical modern thinking, like what must carry out voluntarily, otherwise just fail and the incapability. I want say, black pigment jade can very worldly-wise too in fact, treasure those suit that hairpin known, she knows. So long as she is willing, even if she can't do better than the treasure hairpin, can not be worse than treasure hairpin and too far either.
We are right today " The gift " Understanding " The etiquette " " courteous " ,In fact in the ancient times society, " gift " Range and function,it is far over on this. It is the sum " Punishment " The same, it is a part of the state law, it is noble's stratum that must observe the code of conduct. " whether punishment doctor, gift put common person " ,Because of " gift " It is a patent of noble's class, common people's stratum is unworthy of bearing " the gift " ,deal with they "punishment " .
Oppose " the gift " Property the serious,it is oppose by law today not to equate with. Certainly, the ruling class is impossible for everybody to keep " the gift " ,Seem we known as legal system society today, have privilege person can place oneself above law always. But " gift " It is really binding, " gift " Saboteurs real hide often at dark place, and challenge by " gift " openly ,it suffer identical punishment this. Sages are in the eyes, " wild with joy that the gift breaks out " Very terrible, that shows the whole society has lost the feudal order order, non-standard, it is the omen of crash.
" gift " Actually it was one kind, in order to restrain the thing of the personal contradiction of this stratum of behavior, adjustment. Time long, it a false one those, unnatural part display more and more come out. Regrettably, oppose the human nature, inhibit the thing of the emotion obviously, the offspring's the Confucianists just want to advocate the natural instincts that possess with growing as existing from days of old of it. " gift " Often with " The heart " Violate, but should point " the gift " It is " heart " ," heart " It is " gift " . It that is to say it is scarce for courtesy to have onlies to be enough must be convincing go to carry out " the gift " ,Taking strong emotion to carry out " The gift " .
I often sigh with deep feeling in the contemporary society
06:51, 25 May 2009
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I often Credit Card Terminal Point of Sale sigh with deep feeling in the contemporary society " The thought progresses " Too obvious, everything likes come straight to the point, not implicit at all, delighted and no doubt delighted, totally also the beautiful destruction of classical feelings. Needn't say the classic, even modern classic's classical creation, in our lack of mutual understanding gradually too. For example someone criticizes Yang Jiang the protagonists of men and women of the " having a bath " are false. Probably in their eyes, the extramarital affair movie and television film " a sound of sighs " of theme of this book ,etc. similar. So had better like going to bed, leave the bed and divorce, break an old world, build one new world, just brave, what is done affectedly shily to have so many? For example someone says again " the Golden Lotus " is the great works, " Dream of the Red Chamber " can be only regarded as and spoken the feeling reading materials, because the latter wound feel sad with the coming of autumn too urban petty bourgeois spring, say " whether deer pot write " greater even than Dream of the Red Chamber. All sorts of yarns are numerous. I can only say, the aesthetic temperament and interest of the society, has changed entirely. Except that the business society advocates utility undisguisedly, another reason is the fracture on storey of the culture, the traditional sense of loss, make mob's literature and urban petty bourgeois' literature propagate its belief on a large scale, noble's spirit has already become a kind of remote one and can't reply the thing seen. Please don't misunderstand " Noble's spirit " A word. It has noble's spirit that not taken as the noble, or the rich and idle one is just furnished with noble's spirit. Such as
" float raw six " and " whether shadow plum Buddhist nunnery recall language ", the former citizen life portrayal of stratum, the latter is the life portrayal of noble's stratum, but the spiritual makings which the two reveal out, I thought the former belongs to the noble, the latter was the citizen's - -In other words, petty bourgeoisie.
In the comment of Dream of the Red Chamber, there is a topic that can't be avoided, it is passing judgement on to the treasure hairpin and black pigment jade. After Dream of the Red Chamber comes out, among over one hundred years, though a lot of persons are talking about the fault of the jade of black pigment, but most readers, dote on jade of black pigment, including those point out person of her shortcoming. Until today, the situation has been turned around, more and more people say, do not like the jade of black pigment this " trouble " Girl. Choosing the lover, they would rather want to attack people. Like the woman protagonist of Jin Yong's kungfu novel, the most popular one is pair and small and clear forever.
I have to explain it strenuously again " The woman slave " This word, it is not only used for describing the identity. For example, it is likewise Miss, the makings of visiting spring are nobles', the makings of the winter jasmine are woman slaves'; It is likewise a slave girl, the makings of the purple cuckoo are nobles', the makings of attacking people are woman slaves'. The makings of noble of the purple cuckoo that I thought, are not inferior to the jade of black pigment at all.
Come, make, while comparing, there is a loud prerequisite treasure hairpin and black pigment jade. The purport of Dream of the Red Chamber is to cherish gold and mourn the jade. It described, is youth and beautiful ruin, a thousand a red ones cry for, ten thousand is gaudy and sad. Every young girl, are all targets who it mourns, no matter what kind of defects they have, will not erase their beauty either. They are all " The flesh and blood that water cooks " ,With " flesh and blood that the mud is done " " turbid and discredited and pressing " World of, man that grow up the opposite. A lot of Dream of the Red Chamber of personages, it employs non- black to be pale class struggle eyes come on, treat.
So does not need simple regarding the treasure hairpin as an invador, the saboteurs of the alliance before the wooden stone. Snow celery first make clear the purpose and main theme from the very beginning, and those " full paper Pan fit, the son builds book this, west son, gentle monarch, but authors should write out those one's own two love songs to compose gaudily, so it is the false it draw up men and women surnamed in the two names,must by appear there aren't one vilain, also if the clown in the drama is right " "wind monthly pen and ink " Distinguish, borrow mother Jia's mouth again 54 times, has criticized " old and decayed old set " once . If the treasure hairpin is only that one sets aside the messy buffoon during that time, why reveal black pigment love of treasure is valuable?
Is the treasure hairpin beautiful? Beauty. As Jia three generations good-for-nothing man offer, remitting a punishment, policy, Jean, Lian, Rong,etc. than standing up, compared with her blood elder brother Xue Pan, she so noble to produce dust. Even between a group of outstanding girls, she is an outstanding one. Does the author appreciate that sympathizes with her? Yes. The treasure hairpin is the same as jade of black pigment, is those representatives of bright and unfortunate girls beautifuls, the author is limitless to her destiny sad and pityful. Even a snake in the Garden of Eden - -Attack people, author although tight and cold in heart, pen but Hou Wen, never can write her as one clown come, ravage she, moreover, a treasure hairpin.
But author's emotions to the treasure hairpin and black pigment jade are really different. I want, quote Qing Dynasty Gong Zizhen one poem " whether time kind in the world " come, discuss the problem.
Time is fine in the world, have not embroider in the boudoir. Grow intelligence quietly originally, worry also broken swan is covered with.
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The heart seedling is tender that the jade thrives, the pearl is clever. The skill table of fragrant writing paper, Qu ±J counts window Long.
Far tree watch as mountain, Xing Yun enter, embrace empty. The pillow stops achieving one's goal in the moon, the fan does not avoid the feeling wind.
Leak for long a thousand quarter on daytime, several times of jar dream of night. Germany hold teacher to be gentle and graceful, it is exquisite for script to write.